Hello
I completely understand, having the same problem myself! I was told I should have the operation nearly three years ago - and that I was a 'complicated case' - and was desperate to avoid it.
Instead I went to an excellent acupuncturist - he gave no promises and said it would be a long job, but in fact only six weeks later I suddenly realised I had almost forgotten about it - I could clean the bath, sit down without a rubber circle, all pain had gone and I felt normal again. I have continued to have regular treatments and although I have had the occasional set back when I have had to carry cases etc, (and it is not quite so good as it was) I still teach and do normal things.
I thoroughly recommend it but it is essential to go to a proper, highly experienced acupuncturist and not someone who has done a course and offers it alongside many other things. My acupuncturist is chinese and has done it all his life. It is not cheap but worth every penny, as who knows where I would be now if I had had that operation!
With best wishes for finding someone who can help you,
Diana
You need to find an acupuncturist from www.acupuncture.org.uk (The British Acupuncture Council, who have a list or could advise you)